"What we achieve inwardly, will change outer reality" Plutarch.

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We are all meant to shine, as children do. And as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." Marianne Williamson (and used by Nelson Mandela in his inaugural speech when becoming President).   

Every traveller that walks upon this sacred earth has an inner soul that yearns to be it's fullest and truest expression of its self. 

That may sound pretty daunting to live up to. 

Before you run for the hills, however, yes it may sound too difficult to attain, but let me assure you that every step taken towards that end brings immeasurable benefits.

The world spins at ever increasing speeds and in our frenzy to keep up we hope that maybe one day we will be able to find true happiness and contentment. There is only one way however to satisfy the inner yearning - and that is not by having the latest car, plasma TV, fashion trend etc - whatever is your particular thing - it is by going on an inner journey of self discovery.

Anyone who tells you that you can buy or attain happiness and joy from the outside world will not explain that it can never be sustained. Sustained happiness, joy, contentment, love, peace and all their other wonderful goals that our hearts crave, can only be achieved IF your true inner being is allowed full reign to be and express the true you. 

How am I different from the inner me? Well unless you have been meditating all your life, or on a secluded island away from our insane world, you will have moulded yourself to fit in the best and only way you know how, to make your life as generally painless and secure as possible.  And herein lies the rub - any and all attempts to do this sabotage the real you. It's easy to see how it happens - you learn from your parents, elders, siblings how to live, how not to live, and from most importantly yourself. Every experience will give you a set of "I don't want that again", "that hurts", "yes I like that", "that's fun", "no thanks", etc that together programs a complicated reactionary response to all that faces us - all organized and orchestrated by the brain.  Thus we will have a set sequence of responses to every and all situations that we experience. If our emotional response is negative, the brain goes into protection mode - and all our defenses are raised. If the opposite, then we open up, relax and are receptive. All this takes energy - so it's not surprising we are exhausted most of the time and need that well earned holiday! 

So how can we stop this and get off the treadmill of what is essentially our own cause and effect? How do we stop bending to be who others want us to be, or who we think we ought to be, or who we simply want to be, Brad Pitt....Angelina Jolie......? Who do you aspire to be? In these days of media madness and celebrity cravings, more than ever we are denying ourselves for who we really are. 

And this is just the surface.......underneath the outer layers of material things, fashion, status and pretence are deep deep levels of need, lack of nurturing and love, and pains that I estimate that 95%+ of the population cover up. Some so deeply that they are long since forgotten, or thought behind us. The only problem is that both the subconscious and the brain - the captain and first officer, if you like, that steer your ship - still have them logged into the auto-pilot program - so without you knowing it, they effect and sabotage every waking day and for those that remember their dreams - their night's journeying too.  Worse still, if they are buried for long enough, the physical body can start to suffer illness and dis-ease. For further information on this please refer to the information in my page on Reiki. Whilst Reiki can aid the healing of these ills, it is the core spiritual journeying work that will make sure that they do not recur.       

So what is spiritual guidance and where does it fit in to all this? Think of me as your guide to reconnect you with your inner soul - and who you really are. With that foundation re-established and re-experienced and therefore importantly remembered, you can begin to assess which areas of your life tip you off balance and cause you to stray from the real you. Guidance is given in all these areas. For more information on the areas covered please go to achieving balance.

Why bother - well of course you don't have to - this is a planet of total freewill - but if you do begin this process, and the journey to find and become the real you, the benefits totally outweigh any possible temporary emotional lows.

The journey occurs on two levels - an outward one to understand the cause and then peel away the layers of hurt, protection and illusion. This involves a period of reflection and release of your genetic patterns, your childhood and past life issues, emotionally, spiritually and if apropriate physically. The second element of the journey is to reconnect you to your soul essence and allow the beauty of the true you to emerge. This is done almost totally at a spiritual level initially, as the brain has to be bypassed first and then retrained to be in support of the new you.          

Quite simply you will know what it is to be free, to dance through life with joy in your heart - not a quick fix - but a lasting joy, well-being and happiness, and many other perks besides! And yes, a connection to an unutterable joy that is everyone's birthright........ And what is more - as the quotes above suggest, with every step you take, you begin to touch others as your light radiates outwards like the most glorious ripples on the universal sea of all our existance.   

A few points to note:

  • Spiritual guidance is NOT designed to be in the form of teacher and student, and certainly NOT guru and disciple! It is simply a helping hand  - a momentary facilitation upon your path of life. 
  • At all times, you are empowered to challenge entrenched or outmoded beliefs to find your own ultimate truth.
  • I neither hold nor guide to any particular religion, or religious beliefs, bar an empathy with the notion of reincarnation. My values and ideals accord with the same high values of all main stream religions. 
  • I do work with spirit guides during sessions - much of the work is both guided by my spirit/higher self and other high level guides that assist me. I do not tend to make this obvious during sessions, preferring to allow both to flow freely as if we are having a "normal" conversation.   
  • All material discussed with or by you is treated as being strictly confidential.
  • Sessions may be one in number or a series by agreement with you. 
  • During some sessions it may be appropriate for hands on treatment to be given. This will be discussed and agreed with you beforehand. 
  • Sessions last between 1 hr 30 mins and 2 hours. Costs are £40 per hour.

In ALL cases, the work that is carried out between us is considered sacred, and will be treated as such. It is my honour and privilege to be able to offer the benefit of my inner resources, wisdom and energy to help you fulfill yours........